1000Speak – I Am Raising a Compassionate Child
I’m not sure how it happened.
Somehow, though, I find myself the parent of a child with a compassionate heart.
This little girl cares about the environment. She cares about people and animals. She wonders why and how people can be cruel to one another, whether it’s on a school playground or the world stage. It is unfathomable to her that anyone would abuse or abandon a pet.
This little girl cries when we pass the homeless man who wanders the streets on our route home from school. She drains her piggy bank to send money to places that will help him and others like him. She spends her money on gifts that will make the people around her happy. She asks for donations to a local shelter instead of birthday gifts for herself.
When she says her prayers at night, this little girl asks God to help heal the hurts she sees in the world around her. She has asked to spend her time doing volunteer work this summer.
There are many things she does not understand and, in a perfect world, she would never need to. But the world is not a perfect place. That’s not negativity; that’s reality. And when those imperfections meet her awareness and she asks, I have to comfort, to explain, and to teach.
In the end, it is she who teaches me. She is the one who makes me examine my own conscience and check my own behavior. She makes me think about whether the things I say or do or think are ones I would want her to emulate.
I often think she is far wiser and far more compassionate that I am.
And yet somehow, against all odds, I am raising a compassionate child.
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She sounds like a special soul 🙂 go you!
She really is, Vince. Thank you.
She sounds like a special soul 🙂 go you for helping her flourish!
And thanks again! 😀
So heartwarming and lovely. Knowing you did something right 🙂
Well, I sure hope so, Val. I often think it’s just something intrinsic to her nature, not anything I’ve said or done. But maybe.
You shouldn’t under estimate the part you’ve played.
🙂
She sounds like she has learned everything from you.
I know what you mean though. The children in my own life teach me more and I want to be a better person because of them.
Thanks, Kerry. It’s very true – we can learn a lot from them.
It’s not against all odds, my compassionate friend. It’s because you’re modeling it.
I hope so.
go zilla! go zilla!
Woot!